thank you, PZ

Yes, I am a radical feminist. That doesn't mean that I always see things the right way the first time. PZ Myers nails it: http://freethoughtblogs.com/pharyngula/2014/03/06/absolutes-vs-plastic/

The big takeaway:

[W]hen the world rises up and breaks the model of it in your head, some of us are tickled by the experience and are happy to revise our models. Others are annoyed and offended at the defiance of their sacred preconceptions and want to insist that the world cohere to them.